I think this is pretty much where I fall as well.
We do have games I want to play more, simply so we can grok the systems enough for smooth and quick okay (mostly our skirmish games), but I’ve never been one to deep dive into the depths of strategy a game offers.
I’ve tried to slow down my purchases, but it seems to come in waves. Between saving my purchases to group them for free shipping, or KS seeming to get hit with great projects in chunks (like right now, and likely this fall).
I’m mostly trying to expand our collection to cover areas I find lacking; hoping to grab a few more euro/strategy games (partially at my son’s request), and I’m always up for more short quick to setup games that work well for 2.
I do bounce back and forth on the idea of being a collector, as well as a player, and while I have moved some games to a “trade drawer” most of the time I simply don’t want too. As long as I still have a desire to play a game, even if it’s been many months, it’s hard for me to justify selling/trading it.
An example is out skirmish game collection; I could easily cut it in half, and still have a variety, but I don’t want too. I often just don’t want to play the same one too often, as I can easily get bored, even of games I live with tons of variety.
Someone posted on a discord I’m on, remaining me when SVWAG discussed the whole idea of being a collector. Walker made a statement (which I’m sure I’m going to quote incorrectly) along the lines of “some people spends half their lives looking for something that really brings them joy. We’ve already found it! So what if some of our games sit on the shelf for month or even years? If it doesn’t bother you, who cares?!”
As long as it’s not a financial burden, etc, etc, I don’t see the issue. If someone dislikes the idea of any of their games sitting for months, by all means, trim your collection. I’m not at a point on my life where I care. They bring me joy!! 