# “Oy!” “Wut?” Just chat (The Return of) **URL:** \ **Category:** Not Games\ **Created:** [5 May 2020 17:39 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821 "2020-05-05T17:39:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 69
**Author:** ![RogerBW](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/rogerbw/32/3_2.png) [@RogerBW](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/RogerBW)\ **Post date:** [12 August 2022 14:13 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1370 "2022-08-12T14:13:14Z")
Goodness! Yes please! ---
**Author:** ![dscheidt](https://discussion.tekeli.li/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/d/e480ec/32.png) [@dscheidt](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/dscheidt)\ **Post date:** [12 August 2022 14:25 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1371 "2022-08-12T14:25:39Z")
Sometime ago, long enough ago that pagers were a thing, I got paged in the middle of the night, by a fire fighter, on behalf of my cow orker an apartment near his had burst into flame, and he’d fled his in boxers. He did put on shoes and grab his umbrella. (It wasn’t raining ). I picked hm up, and bought him some clothes. (His place was un damaged, but they wouldn’t let him in it until later. ) ---
**Author:** ![Whistle\_Pig](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/whistle_pig/32/1052_2.png) [@Whistle\_Pig](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/Whistle_Pig)\ **Post date:** [12 August 2022 16:42 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1372 "2022-08-12T16:42:51Z")
I learned a new trick today. I have written a strategy proposal at work for my area of responsibility, and it has been in reviewing hell since April. Yesterday I got fed up and sent it directly to the MD, who asked me which bits I wanted to include in the whole-company strategy and could we catch up on Tuesday to talk about a couple of points 🤷‍♀️ ---
**Author:** ![RossM](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/rossm/32/1021_2.png) [@RossM](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/RossM)\ **Post date:** [12 August 2022 17:19 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1373 "2022-08-12T17:19:11Z")
I sent an email to my head of HR today. “Can we have a chat Wednesday? Ideally face to face. (I am not resigning.)” I don’t know if I should make light of poor staff retention, but what’s the worst they can do? ---
**Author:** ![JGD](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/jgd/32/619_2.png) [@JGD](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/JGD)\ **Post date:** [12 August 2022 19:23 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1374 "2022-08-12T19:23:45Z")
> [@tomm\_archer](#): > > When I was in work the other day we had a fire drill. My office has a fire alarm test at a consistent time each week. When there’s a fire drill at other times, there’s about a ten-second pause before people start moving. However, the building is not tall, so evacuating and coming back is no great imposition. Our H&S people are calibrated for factories, not office buildings. Most of the company is factories. ---
**Author:** ![tomm\_archer](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/tomm_archer/32/1153_2.png) [@tomm\_archer](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/tomm_archer)\ **Post date:** [12 August 2022 19:52 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1375 "2022-08-12T19:52:10Z")
The beauty of working from home for over two years, missing over two years of being disturbed by Friday morning fire alarm tests. I work on the third floor and my closest fire exit exits into the basement. ---
**Author:** ![COMaestro](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/comaestro/32/1030_2.png) [@COMaestro](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/COMaestro)\ **Post date:** [14 August 2022 01:14 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1376 "2022-08-14T01:14:27Z")
My kid is watching YouTube vids on the television. A thumbnail went by that, for a second, I thought was a picture of the cover of Catan, but ended up just being an advertisement for Ritz crackers. Yep, I am definitely a gamer. ---
**Author:** ![Griffster77](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/griffster77/32/1048_2.png) [@Griffster77](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/Griffster77)\ **Post date:** [14 August 2022 20:15 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1377 "2022-08-14T20:15:47Z")
Firstly I want to presage this by saying I have a very good relationship with my mother in law and am forever grateful for all the help she gives us. But over the weekend, completely put of the blue, while we were away visiting friends, she let herself into the house and cleaned top to bottom. As well as thinking, thats awesome, I dont need to do it tomorrow now, I also feel a bit weird that she just came into our house without us knowing. Is that weird and am I just being ungrateful? ---
**Author:** ![raged\_norm](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/raged_norm/32/21570_2.png) [@raged\_norm](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/raged_norm)\ **Post date:** [14 August 2022 20:24 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1378 "2022-08-14T20:24:30Z")
My sister had that for a while with our mum but with gardening instead. There were a few polite words about the feeling of her home not being a truly private space and it stopped. ---
**Author:** ![Griffster77](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/griffster77/32/1048_2.png) [@Griffster77](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/Griffster77)\ **Post date:** [14 August 2022 20:58 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1379 "2022-08-14T20:58:44Z")
I mean, in some ways, i very much don’t WANT it to stop! The woman is a cleaning fairy! Also, my wife thinks its great so don’t want to upset her by saying I think its odd ---
**Author:** ![RossM](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/rossm/32/1021_2.png) [@RossM](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/RossM)\ **Post date:** [14 August 2022 21:09 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1380 "2022-08-14T21:09:55Z")
It is weird, but aren’t we all? I think you can express gratitude whilst asking what compelled her to complete this act of kindness. ---
**Author:** ![BigJackBrass](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/bigjackbrass/32/4_2.png) [@BigJackBrass](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/BigJackBrass)\ **Post date:** [14 August 2022 21:18 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1381 "2022-08-14T21:18:07Z")
Would it help if you paid her and asked her to pop round and clean every fortnight? ---
**Author:** ![raged\_norm](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/raged_norm/32/21570_2.png) [@raged\_norm](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/raged_norm)\ **Post date:** [14 August 2022 21:19 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1382 "2022-08-14T21:19:01Z")
Fundamentally yes it’s great, but I would rather it be ‘I’m coming round to clean’ before the event. Completely personal of course ---
**Author:** ![Chewy77](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/chewy77/32/1035_2.png) [@Chewy77](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/Chewy77)\ **Post date:** [14 August 2022 22:11 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1383 "2022-08-14T22:11:09Z")
I’d say pay in wine. It is a tricky one, because you can feel your privacy being invaded, but I can see how it can be of great help, specially if you have children and both of you work (I’d love the mother in law to come and clean, but she is half a planet away). So maybe ask her politely if she could drop a text when she plans on coming around? ---
**Author:** ![Chewy77](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/chewy77/32/1035_2.png) [@Chewy77](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/Chewy77)\ **Post date:** [14 August 2022 22:41 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1384 "2022-08-14T22:41:37Z")
It is a bit out of the way, so who knows. Maybe? ---
**Author:** ![Gus](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/gus/32/1019_2.png) [@Gus](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/Gus)\ **Post date:** [15 August 2022 00:23 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1385 "2022-08-15T00:23:36Z")
Leave sex toys out somewhere conspicuous. (Carefully bury the packaging they were delivered in for this purpose in the recycling, obviously). Not On. ---
**Author:** ![Chewy77](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/chewy77/32/1035_2.png) [@Chewy77](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/Chewy77)\ **Post date:** [15 August 2022 00:51 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1386 "2022-08-15T00:51:37Z")
That brings me memories from Top Secret about how not to use 115V apparatus at 220V in such sensitive areas ![top secret](https://discussion.tekeli.li/uploads/default/original/3X/a/0/a0f6ffdbe14257c3b0b7425a6ee4e04648445931.jpeg) ---
**Author:** ![Benkyo](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/benkyo/32/1026_2.png) [@Benkyo](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/Benkyo)\ **Post date:** [15 August 2022 01:34 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1387 "2022-08-15T01:34:53Z")
Well, you wouldn’t want to leave them _on_, of course. Drains the battery. ---
**Author:** ![Gus](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/gus/32/1019_2.png) [@Gus](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/Gus)\ **Post date:** [15 August 2022 02:17 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1388 "2022-08-15T02:17:20Z")
Anything I say is just going to make things worse, dammit. [grin] ---
**Author:** ![Lordof1](https://discussion.tekeli.li/user_avatar/discussion.tekeli.li/lordof1/32/5_2.png) [@Lordof1](https://discussion.tekeli.li/u/Lordof1)\ **Post date:** [15 August 2022 12:56 UTC](https://discussion.tekeli.li/t/oy-wut-just-chat-the-return-of/821/1389 "2022-08-15T12:56:26Z")
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